I really don't believe there can ever be
love at first sight. Definitely strong physical attraction, but not
love. There is
lust at first sight, but I suppose we're not suppose to go
there.
The date was Tuesday, June 12, 1979, my roommate, Susie, and I decided to go dancing, one of our favorite things to do back then. We preferred going during the week as opposed to the crazy, crowded weekends. We were confident we'd be asked to dance and have a nearly-empty dance floor to enjoy while burning off some calories. Of course if we
just happened to meet a nice guy during the process, that wouldn't hurt either.
So back to that Tuesday night...
This one guy kept asking me to dance, and I kept saying yes. He wasn't anyone I was attracted to, but I was having a blast dancing and that was the purpose. While out on the dance floor, I glanced across the room and spotted Susie talking with this drop-dead gorgeous guy.
Whoa! It was love at first sight and I needed to meet him! As soon as the song was over, I thanked my partner for the dance and quickly made my way over to introduce myself. His name was Roy and we seemed to click right away. While chatting, I told him I worked at the bank and was amazed to discover that he was friends with Paula, a girl I just happened to work with. It was getting very late and Susie and I had to work the next day, so we said goodbye. Roy walked us to our car, but didn't ask for my phone number. I was crushed. Later Susie told me that the whole time they were talking, he kept asking her about her friend...
Me! She got mad at him and said, "if you want to know about her, ask her, not me". Was it love at first sight for him too?
At work the next day, I talked with our mutual friend, Paula. She was excited to hear I met Roy and said she had actually considered setting us up at one time. I told her to give him my phone number which was completely out of character for me, but I didn't want to pass up this opportunity. The next day she told me he had gone out of town for two weeks for work. When he returned two weeks later, he called Paula for my phone number. We've been together ever since.